Florida Divorce Process

  • Neutralizing Feuds Through a New Approach to Divorce

    ByGoodblatt • Leo Hours Categories Collaborative Divorce, Divorce

    The structure of traditional divorce litigation unfailingly puts spouses in fight mode, and often forces them to challenge every demand or request made by the opposing side. As a result, many spouses will emerge from the legal process even more disconnected and set against each other than when they started the divorce. Not only is this approach emotionally draining and continually stressful, it is also very expensive, and could leave both parties feeling they did not receive a fair and balanced result. One alternative method that promotes civil discourse over divisive confrontation is collaborative divorce. While it is nearly impossible to completely separate the emotion provoked by ending a marriage, sorting out how to disentangle two lives can be accomplished in a respectful and productive…

  • Remember to Take Care of yourself During and After your Divorce

    ByGoodblatt • Leo Hours Categories Divorce

    Most divorces are difficult. Even amicable divorces, such as collaborative divorces, can be stressful before during and  after their divorce is finalized. When you are working through a divorce and relearning how to live as a single person  it can be easy to put your own well- being on the back burner. Use the following tips to take care of yourself through the divorce process and in the months that follow. Keep Hitting the Gym and Eating Right There is a correlation between your physical health and your mental health. Staying in shape can keep your mind in a healthier, more balanced place that makes it easier for you to tackle the challenges that come with a divorce. Your diet is also linked to your…

  • Can I Legally Read my Spouse’s Email During the Divorce Process?

    ByGoodblatt • Leo Hours Categories Divorce

    No. This is an invasion of privacy. In fact, you cannot read your spouse’s emails, text messages, or other correspondences without his or her consent at any time. If a correspondence is protected by a password or it is conducted using a device owned by an individual’s employer, you cannot search through it without your spouse’s consent. Even when a device like a cell phone or a laptop is shared property or uses a shared data plan, accessing your spouse’s private accounts may be deemed to be an invasion of his or her privacy. When you are going through a divorce, you might feel tempted to search through your spouse’s accounts. This could be to find evidence to show the court that he or she…

  • No Matter How Embarrassing it can Be, you Have to be Honest with your Family Lawyer

    ByGoodblatt • Leo Hours Categories Divorce, Family Law

    In a previous blog post, we talked about how important it is for you to be honest with your bankruptcy lawyer, even if that means discussing personal, potentially embarrassing information. This advice is valid for any interaction with a lawyer, no matter what type of legal issue you are facing. Family law can be an emotional minefield, especially when you are going through a divorce or developing a time sharing agreement for your children. It can be easy to let your emotions color your perception, but you cannot let them cause you to lie or misrepresent the facts of your case to your lawyer. Dishonesty Can Backfire and Hurt you Your former spouse has a lawyer too, and if you lie about any of the…

  • How Can I Save Money on my Divorce?

    ByGoodblatt • Leo Hours Categories Collaborative Divorce, Divorce, Family Law

    If you are considering filing for divorce, you have a lot to think about.  You need to find a competent lawyer that you trust to handle your case, you need to file the necessary documents with the court correctly, you need to interact with your lawyer, the court, and your spouse regarding emotionally-charged topics on a seemingly continuous basis, and you need to make plans for life after the divorce, such as finding a new place to live. To add to these stresses, you need to think about how you will afford your divorce. Talk to your lawyer about ways you can make your divorce less expensive.  Your divorce should not bankrupt you.  Although certain costs may be unavoidable, there could be money-saving options available…

  • What To Look For In A Divorce Lawyer

    ByGoodblatt • Leo Hours Categories Divorce, Family Law

    Divorce is a time when even the best among us need assistance.  The complexity of the law means that you will require a good lawyer, but we must also remember that an lawyer has specific jobs to perform, and you must find a lawyer you feel comfortable with.  If you are lawyer shopping, it is imperative that you understand what type of personality will give you the type of service you want and deserve. Respect and Realism An ideal divorce lawyer respects her clients.  This means, as one might expect, that your lawyer will treat you with respect not only when you are a prospective client, but also once she has your business.  This also means that you are not the only one she will…